Comments on: Being in love with more than one person http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/ Straight from the mouth of a Gen Y Woman Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:41:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Aaron http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2626 Aaron Fri, 27 Jun 2008 04:51:04 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2626 You can definitely love two people at the same time. Being "in love" with someone is what society has named for infatuation for someone. Love is a choice... true love anyway. When someone is at their worst, even when directed toward you, and you still love them, then you're choosing to love them. True love is unconditional. Whether or not you want to transform your love for a person, or people, into a relationship with him/her, or them, is another story. I think you can love multiple people for different reasons. Why do we have to say only one person can "love" us, or vice versa? When you think about it, that's a lot of pressure. Maybe that's why there are so many failed marriages in this day and age. You can definitely love two people at the same time. Being “in love” with someone is what society has named for infatuation for someone. Love is a choice… true love anyway. When someone is at their worst, even when directed toward you, and you still love them, then you’re choosing to love them. True love is unconditional.

Whether or not you want to transform your love for a person, or people, into a relationship with him/her, or them, is another story. I think you can love multiple people for different reasons. Why do we have to say only one person can “love” us, or vice versa? When you think about it, that’s a lot of pressure. Maybe that’s why there are so many failed marriages in this day and age.

]]> By: rana irfan aziz http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2620 rana irfan aziz Tue, 24 Jun 2008 06:05:10 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2620 i rthink a person can love two persons but not at a time... He or She has to chose one.. i rthink a person can love two persons but not at a time…
He or She has to chose one..

]]> By: Tin Ma'am http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2598 Tin Ma'am Wed, 18 Jun 2008 22:08:46 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2598 I have been, but I'm quite lucky to be surrounded by so many great people of the opposite sex. I have been, but I’m quite lucky to be surrounded by so many great people of the opposite sex.

]]> By: Laura http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2596 Laura Wed, 18 Jun 2008 13:32:29 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2596 I think you can love two people (or more) at once, but not be IN love with more than one at a time. I think you can love two people (or more) at once, but not be IN love with more than one at a time.

]]> By: Lara http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2594 Lara Wed, 18 Jun 2008 03:10:33 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2594 i have been. i have been.

]]> By: the almost right word http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2583 the almost right word Thu, 12 Jun 2008 23:08:35 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2583 and p.s. i think that's the most personal thing i have ever written (in a comment, or my own blog). thanks for bringing it out of me. and p.s. i think that’s the most personal thing i have ever written (in a comment, or my own blog). thanks for bringing it out of me.

]]> By: the almost right word http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2582 the almost right word Thu, 12 Jun 2008 23:08:00 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2582 recently asked myself this very question when prompted with the possibility of "having feelings" for someone other than my boyfriend, whom i know i love. to be honest, i still don't know what the answer is... recently asked myself this very question when prompted with the possibility of “having feelings” for someone other than my boyfriend, whom i know i love.

to be honest, i still don’t know what the answer is…

]]> By: amy http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2564 amy Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:16:56 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2564 Although I don't personally agree with that, I guess I could see how others would (think The Bachelor in real life). That's a very interesting statistic though...perhaps that's why I'm not married yet :) ha! Although I don’t personally agree with that, I guess I could see how others would (think The Bachelor in real life). That’s a very interesting statistic though…perhaps that’s why I’m not married yet :) ha!

]]> By: Bronnie http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2563 Bronnie Thu, 05 Jun 2008 23:28:26 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2563 I'm in that age group too. I don't think you can be inlove with more than one person. But I think you can develop a crush, while inlove with someone else. I’m in that age group too. I don’t think you can be inlove with more than one person. But I think you can develop a crush, while inlove with someone else.

]]> By: sophie http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2560 sophie Thu, 05 Jun 2008 17:11:20 +0000 http://www.genpink.com/being-in-love-with-more-than-one-person/#comment-2560 I think TV and movies have a lot to do with the opinions and ideas of people being polyamorous. In real life, it's just a matter of going from a crush to another within a relationship. Taking the plunge and "love" another person while you're "in love" with one, might be considered as a daredevil move. It has nothing to do with the real meaning of the word love, it just has a lot to do with adrenalin pumping. In my case, if I really need it, I'll go bungee jumping any given time. No mess, no fuss. :D I think TV and movies have a lot to do with the opinions and ideas of people being polyamorous. In real life, it’s just a matter of going from a crush to another within a relationship. Taking the plunge and “love” another person while you’re “in love” with one, might be considered as a daredevil move. It has nothing to do with the real meaning of the word love, it just has a lot to do with adrenalin pumping.

In my case, if I really need it, I’ll go bungee jumping any given time. No mess, no fuss. :D

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